The Indonesian capital city of Jakarta has many beautiful girls for you to check out when you happen to be in town.

The sheer population of women in this city makes it a great opportunity for any single male foreigner to explore. In this guide I wanted to give you an brief introduction to Indonesian girls, and give you an idea about the best places to meet and pick up girls in Jakarta.

Intro to Dating in Jakarta

Most of the daytime activities involving girls is quite limited, due to Indonesia being a Muslim dominant country. Even so much that some young women even skip the dating process and go straight to marriage (source). So you need to respect the cultural norms. But not only that, the women will not be that responsive during the daytime.

Sure you will see plenty of women around in the streets, shops, and office buildings, but they won’t be open to getting picked up in most cases. It is not so easy like it is on other Southeast Asian countries.

The nightlife activities in Jakarta is where you really get to see how fun this city can be for single guys.

From the bars, nightclubs, restaurants, once the sun sets, you will have the best chance to score with girls in Jakarta.

But before even thinking of that, you should know a few more things

Personalities of Indonesian Girls

Simply put, they are not that easy to impress, and they pay a lot of attention to how you look and carry yourself.

Everything comes into play, including your personality and your social skills. If you want the hot girls (and who doesn’t) then you will need to realize that “being a foreigner” is not enough to hook up with hottest Indonesian girls.

But here is the great thing, once you understand what types of gentlemen these women give attention to, you will be almost overwhelmed at the amount of dating opportunities you have in this city. In this regard, Jakarta may be the best in all Southeast Asia — yes even better than Philippines.

Jakarta is one of those types of places where it gets better the longer you stay. You can build up your connections and rotation of girls, and will almost have an endless supply Indonesian women to date.

It gets even better once you consider the fact that online dating has grown in popularity over the past few years. So now there is a whole other bunch of Jakarta girls that are online looking to meet guys for dating.

There are basically three types of girls you can meet in Jakarta:

1. Those that are looking for serious relationship
2. casual dating with foreigners, short time fun, etc
3. Working girls in the industry

Whether you want to pay for it or not, you will always have options in this city. That is what makes Jakarta one of the best cities for foreign gentlemen in Asia.

Places To Meet Women in Jakarta

I will give you a full idea of where to meet all types singles. Here are the best places in Jakarta to meet and pick up women:

Nightclubs

The nightclubs are the perfect choice if you want to meet some normal chicks in Jakarta. These are the students, office workers, and others who are just going out for a great time with their crew of friends.

You will usually find women in groups dancing around, hanging out with there friends. Many of the hotter ladies will be sitting in the VIP with bottle service. Whatever you do, don’t get intimidated. Foreigners can do great in the nightclubs in Jakarta, as long as they follow the dress code, look sharp, and know how to act in a club setting.

How do you do that? let loose, and have fun, and stay confident.

If you look like you are having fun then the girls will come around you, especially being a foreigner. Things might have changed a bit, but don’t forget, being a foreigner is still a novelty in Southeast Asia, you just have to know how to stand out apart from the other foreigners more these days.

Some popular place to check out are: Dragonfly, Fable, Immigrant.

A decent idea is to meet the girls online, and then ask them to come to the nightclub with you.

Bars

Jakarta has lots of bars, and they all have their own vibe and special characteristics. But most of the popular places have one thing in common: they get busy in the evening, many women go to these establishments to meet up with their friends and socialize. And because the music is not as loud as the clubs, you can actually converse with them.

A few names of the top of my head are Bluegrass, Blowfish, And Safehouse.

The bars are great way to pick up girls in this city, especially if your approach game is good.

Gentlemen Clubs & Spas

The gentlemen clubs and massage parlors in Jakarta are simply amazing. They are like all-in-one complexes, that are designed for single guys to have some fun with the working women. They have various fun activities like massage, nightclubs, and KTVs. But they all give you a chance to pick a girl, and get to spend some sexy time with her, for a price of course.

The main benefit of these places is two things:

1. Some of the most attractive women you will meet
2. you don’t waste time and money in the bars, nightclubs and streets trying to pick up girls.

The nightclubs at these gentlemen clubs are almost like normal clubs, with drinks served, dance floor and music, but all the women there are P4P and it will cost you.

Online

One of the best ways to meet women in Jakarta is online. I personally use this site. There are lots of singles who have dating profiles on the popular dating sites. All it takes from your end is to set up an account, put a few good pictures. Just write down in your profile that you are in town, and wish to meet some women. Usually if your profile is decent, you will get lots of responses from the women. To take it even farther you can message them and let them know that you are in the city. All it takes is some initial conversation, then ask them out on a date to meet in person.

Jakarta is very well known for it massage parlors, which are catered specifically to gentlemen looking for a great sensual experience with the beautiful Indonesian women.

In this guide I will get you more familiar with these “men’s spas, and give you a good idea about the type of experience to expect, and also list the most popular places for you to get your massage fix in Jakarta.

About Men’s Spas in Jakarta

Although Jakarta is known for its bustling nightlife, bars, and nightclubs, it also has some impressive massage parlors, which are probably some of the best in all of Southeast Asia. These men’s spas are “all in one” entertainment complexes, offering everything from:

• massage
• nightclub
• karaoke
• dining
• fitness
• sauna
• and even hotel rooms on premises.

You could easily spend an entire day at these “complexes”, and feel like your a king, with all your needs taken care of. These parlors are actually one of the best things about this city.

The north part of the city is where a good portion of these massage parlors are, including some of the more high quality ones. If you are looking for the most luxurious complexes then North Jakarta will be your best best to explore.

Generally, Jalan Gajah Mada and Jayum Wurk areas have a good amount of the complexes. A good strategy for most guys is to just stay in and around this area, since they can be near the spas.

You also have the B’Fashion and Classic Hotel which you could stay at. They offer rooms on premises, which will also give you direct access to the entertainment such as spas and nightclubs to enjoy.

Malioboro Hotel and Spa

One of the popular places in the city for men’s entertainment. The Malioboro complex offers a taste in luxury, with a beautiful ambience for you to enjoy. Of course you can expect some very attractive dancers and masseuses here. So expect prices to be more expensive here, but of course you will get great service here. The hotel offers rooms on premises and the Malio Spa is where you can get the various massage services.

King Cross

The King Cross may be a better option if you want slightly less expensive prices as compared to Malioboro Spa above. The great thing is that it is owned by the same group that owns Malioboro, so some of the dancers there are also working at the King Cross. The complex itself is multi level, which has other entertainment such as nightclub, bar, restaurant, and live music. The complex is also a hotel, which offers decent accommodation for you.

Classic Hotel

A very popular place, the Classic Hotel is one-stop-shop for male entertainment. The great thing about this place is that there are lots of girls working each night. There are a few floors offering different services. The main Spa is in the basement. The nightclubs and lounges are on ground and upper floors.

B’Fashion Spa

Another complex which doubles as a hotel, and also men’s entertainment. The B’Fashion Spa also has some great services and massueses for you to try.

108 Spa

Another popular spa in Jakarta, the 108 Spa used to be known as Illigals. The main highlight of this place is that it has some of the most beautiful looking girls in Jakarta that work here each and every night. Expect some fun times here, with good services. The 108 Spa is also known for employing women from other nationalities, so you could try it out if you prefer that.

Emporium

The Emporium offers excellent male entertainment, with a consistent clientele. The place offers a luxury experience, with very attractive girls working on any given night. It is also owned by the same group that operates Malio and King Cross, so you can expect the same great high quality experience as in those places.

Sexy Pool at 101

A well known place that is popular among the wealthier local businessmen. The services and ambience is very nice, just expect it to be a bit on the expensive side.

Fortune

Fortune is located in the Jalan Sudirman district, which is not in North Jakarta area. The services and masseuses are decent, just a bit pricey. If you are in this area it may a be a good option for you to check out.

Sumo Spa

The Sumo Spa offers good value, especially for the types of massages that they offer on the menu. There are lots of cute girls working on any given night. The place is itself is on the smaller side, but has a cozy feel to it. The Sumo Spa might be perfect for those of you that prefer to be in smaller venue as compared to some of the bigger complexes mentioned in this list.

Jakarta remains to be one of the best place to experience a great nightlife in Southeast Asia. From the bars to the nightclubs, and even the massage entertainment complexes, this city has it all.

In this guide I wanted to give you guys a clear understanding of the nightlife in Jakarta, including the best areas to check out.

Intro To Jakarta’s Nightlife Scene

Jakarta has had a title of being a wild and fun city throughout the past years, especially when it came to gentlemen travel, but the the truth is that there have been some changes recently. Most of these changes have to do with new government “policies”, which resulted in many bars and clubs closing down, and in return, some other venues opened up that were targeting more than just single male foreigners. So of course, this has some good and bad things about it.

The good is that there are a wide variety of things to experience, and also a more diverse crowd, which also includes many young people who come here to party and have a great time. Naturally this also created better security and safety, since the local authorities would like to achieve a safe nightlife experience for the tourists.

One drawback is that being a foreigner is not a novelty like it was in years gone by, another is that the prices have also seen an increase, especially when it comes to the better nightclubs and buying alcoholic beverages.

Going out to the best clubs in Jakarta can get quite expensive, especially if you also plan to pay for freelancers, massages, and other such things. Generally speaking, the entrance fee to some of the clubs in Jakarta is some of highest I have seen in Southeast Asia.

North Jakarta

The north of the city is where you can experience the unique and authentic nightlife experience in Jakarta. It is much less trendy than the southern part of the city, and has more of the original nightclubs, bars, massages, and men’s spas that Jakarta has been so famous for.

South Jakarta

If you want a more trendy experience, with the most modern nightclubs, bars, restaurants, and hotels in jakarta, then the South of the city offers that type of experience. Just also keep in mind that South Jakarta is also where the prices are much higher, especially in the more upscale places. But of course, you generally get what you pay for, which for the most part includes better service, standards, and upscale freelancers.

Best Nightlife Areas in 2019

To get a clear understanding, I have listed here the best areas to check out, with some extra pointers about each place, and what to expect. Here we go:

Jalan Jaksa

Possibly the best value can be had in this area. If you want to party without breaking the bank, then consider this area. For the most part, the crowds here will be locals, backpackers or others looking for a budget friendly place to party. This also includes many single male foreigners who come to experience the naughty activities for decent prices.

Mega Kunigan

An overall excellent place to check, it has a wide variety of bars and clubs, and most of the establishments are close to each other. You can easily check them out and see which ones you like. Another great thing about this place is that it is very popular among the young locals, which also includes the nice Indonesia girls who frquent this area, and are interested to meet and party with foreigners. Some popular places here are Flow, Basque, Jack Sparrows.

SCBD

Offers more of trendy and upscale experience. Most of the popular places like the Fairgrounds Complex is an excellent place to experience the exciting nightlife in this area. You will find many of the younger locals partying here, especially the wealthier ones that consider themselves to be part of the “high society” crowd. A few establishments to consider are Fable Club, Beer Garden, Hard Rock Cafe, and Pallas Lounge.

Senopati

More of a residential area, with plenty of Indonesian Chinese locals who prefer to party here. However, you also find a few foreigners in the venues such as Lola, Monty’s Vibes.

Block M

The famous “red light district”, which was one of the cities original areas for nighty fun, especially when it came to single male foreigners. As mentioned before, much has changed, and the area is not only considered for the title it once had. It does still have some girly bars to check out though, most of which will be around the Jalan Faletehan area. These places cater to the single men who are interested in the bar girls.

Kemang

Kemang has plenty of bars, most of which are very popular among the expat crowd in Jakarta. You will also see a few nightclubs to explore. A few popular places to check out are Murphy’s, Queen’s Head, Nuchina and 999.

Kota/Glodok

Was also considered one of cities dedicated naughty areas. It is located in the north part of the city. Of course, you can expect nightclubs and bars that have freelancers/working girls in them. There are also some men’s spas and massage parlors in Kota-Glodok.

Pentai Indah Kapuk

An excellent area full of bars, restaurants, and nightclubs. Many local crowds, especially the wealthier Indo-Chinese variety.

Melawai/Grand Wijaya

Another area most famous as a red light district in Jakarta. Many Asian single males tend to frequent here, especially the Koreans and Japanese who like to go to the KTV bars and massage spas.

Popular Bars in Jakarta

Jakarta is well known for its bars. Not only are there so many of them all over the city, but each establishment has something unique to offer. From tasty drinks, to appetizers, you can find a wide variety of experiences at the bars. Here are places to keep in mind:

• Monty’s
• Jack Sparrows
• Basque
• The Dutch
• Union
• Lucy in the Sky
• Bluegrass
• Cork and Screw

The following bars I mention are more popular for single male foreigners who are interested in meeting Indonesia girls, including freelancers.

• BATS, 36, CJ’s, My Bar (Plenty of working girls and freelancers)
• Basque
• Social House
• Bluegrass
• Eastern Promise

Popular Nightclubs

As you may know, Jakarta has some of the best nightclub experience in Southeast Asia. There are so many venues in this city, here are some of the more popular places for partying and dancing:

• Empirica – EDM & Club Hits
• Immigrant – Top 40, mixed club music
• Domain – EDM & Club Hits
• Jenja – Techno & House
• Dragon Fly – Top 40, Mixed club music
• Blowfish – Mostly Top 40 hits

If you are specially looking for the clubs with the most freelancers then check out the following list which has the places with the most working girls.

• 08 Club
• B’Fashion
• Malioboro
• Classic
• Colosseum
• Sumo
• Kings Cross
• Cherry
• Tease Club
• Mars

Final Thoughts

As mentioned, buying individual drinks can get quite expensive. A good idea may be to get bottle service, especially if you are with a couple other people, or with some girls. Generally, you will get much better service, and they venue will throw in some comps for the entrance fee. As a single male it will also be a great way to set up a post and have better way to meet women in Jakarta. You can ask them to join your table for a drink.

Just like most cities, the better days for partying would be from Thursday to Saturday. You can expect a lively and exciting crowd these days, especially in the trendy South Jakarta area. In North Jakarta the scene is a bit more consistent, and even on the weekdays you may find a decent amount of people at most of the places.

As a single traveler headed to Jakarta, then you will probably be wanting to stay in guest friendly hotels. So in this guide I wanted to list some affordable hotels that have this “no joiner fee” policy.

I will first give you a briefing about the Jakarta hotel scene, so you get an idea of what to expect when bringing back any non registered guest back to your room.

Intro to Girl Friendly Hotels in Jakarta

Most of you guys that are familiar with travel in Southeast Asia will already know that Jakarta can be an amazing place for single male travelers. Simply put, it has some of the best nightlife and “gentlemen” clubs that are designed and created to make you feel like you are living the dream in paradise.

And like many other destinations I mention here, you will surely end up meeting women in Jakarta that you will want to bring back to your hotel.

The Jakarta hotel scene is a bit different than other places designed for gentlemen travel. In this city, some of the hotels are called “Syariah” hotels, and they will not permit you to bring back any female guest that is not your wife, i.e. without proof of a marriage certificate. Keep in mind that Indonesia is a Muslim dominant country, as I mentioned in my brief intro to Jakarta article.

Although most of the luxury hotels in Jakarta do have a girl friendly policy, some of the low to medium budget places do not.

Simply look at this list for reference to some popular and affordable hotels that do not charge any joiner fees or require proof of marriage before you can bring any overnight visitors back to your room.

Ibis Jakarta Harmoni ***

Located in the northern side of the city, the Ibis Jakarta Harmoni is a solid three start hotel. The rooms are very comfortable, the staff is attentive, and the high ratings are and excellent indicator of what you can expect here. One of the newer guest friendly properties that is near the popular Grand Indonesia Shopping Center.

Budget: $$$$$ (check price)
Location: Hayum Wuruk Street
Rated: 8.0 out of 10

Ibis Styles Jakarta Gajah Mada Hotel ****

A solid four star hotel, the Ibis Styles Jakarta Gajah Mada Hotel is one of the better four star hotels in the norther Jakarta region. Previously named the All Season Gajah Mada. Rooms are very clean, come with free WiFi, and get serviced daily. It is also just a few minutes to the Gaja Mada Mall.

Budget $$$$$ (check price)
Location: Gajah Mada
Rated: 8.0 out of 10

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Hotel 88 Mangga Besar 120 ***

A reputed three star hotel, the Hotel Manga Besar 120 is part of the Hotel 88 Chains in Singapore. Although the rooms are modern and very comfortable, they are not that spacious. Over all it is a good choice for a mid budget traveler looking for a guest friendly place.

Budget $$$$$ (check price)
Location: Jalan Mangga Besar
Rated: 7.2 out of 10

Whiz Prime ***

Located just across the great Mall of Indonesia, the Whiz Prime is a three star property. One of the best features of the place is the popular Karaoke bar on the the 5th floor. The rooms are are also comfortable, come with free WiFi.

Budget $$$$$ (check price)
Location: Kelapa Gading
Rated: 7.5 out of 10

Favehotel Gatot Subroto ***

A solid three star hotel, the Favehotel Gatot Subroto is strategically located with easy access to the Jakarta airport. It may be perfect place for you to stay if you want to be near the expressway, and avoid being stuck in traffic for too long to come in and out of the city. In terms of nightlife, it is also nearby the Mega Kunigan and SCBD area, which has plenty of bars and nightclub.

Budget $$$$$ (check price)
Location: Kartika Chandra kavling A9 Street
Rated: 7.4 out of 10

Red Planet Pasar Baru **

Yes, it is the same Red Planet hotel chain that is popular in the Philippines. This one is a two star property, but still clean and comfortable as this hotel chain is so famous for. The only issue is that the rooms are on the smaller side, but this is to be expected from this Brand. In any case, it may be a great choice for you single male travelers in Jakarta, since it is fully guest friendly.

Budget $$$$$ (check price)
Location: Pasar Baru
Rated: 7.4 out of 10

Amaris Tharmin City **

One of the best budget guest friendly hotels on this list. The Amaris Tharmin is a two star hotel located on the upper level of another large building complex, which consists of a shopping center. Rooms are clean, comfortable, have free WiFi, but are a bit on the basic side. Of course you shouldn’t expect to much from a two star property in Jakarta, so just understand it is listed here for the good value it represents.

Budget $$$$$ (check price)
Location: Thamrin District
Rated: 7.4 out of 10

All Season Jakarta Thamrin ****

A solid four star property, the All Season Jakarta Tharmin is situated nearby the Plaza Indonesia and Grand Indonesia (about 10 minute walk). The hotel has convenient facilities, with restaurant, bar, and fitness center on location. Being a 100% guest friendly hotel, it can be a great place for the single male travelers.

Budget $$$$$ (check price)
Location: Thamrin District
Rated: 7.9 out of 10

Holiday Inn Express Jakarta Wahid Haysim ***

A great value three star hotel, the Holiday Inn Express Jakarta Wahid Haysim is one of the more recent guest friendly hotels in this area of Jakarta. Rooms are comfortable, very clean, and the staff is very attentive to all guests. A great feature of this place is the close location to the MRT station (about 2-3 minutes walk). For your convenience there are also plenty of shops, restaurants and cafes nearby.

Budget $$$$$ (check price)
Location: Thamrin District
Rated: 8.6 out of 10

Amaris La Codefin Kemang ***

Located near the Kemang District, the Amaris La Codefin Kemang is a three star hotel. Rooms are simply designed, very clean, and come with free WiFi. The location is also very convenient, as there is a supermarket, cafes, and massage services directly on site of the hotel.

Budget $$$$$ (check price)
Location: Kemang
Rated: 7.7 out of 10

Neo Melawi ***

Another decent three star property, the Neo Melawai is located close to the Blok M nightlife activities on Jalan Faltehan. Rooms are very comfortable, and clean, but on the smaller side. It is a great choice for those of you that want a guest friendly hotel around the Blok M district in Jakarta.

Budget $$$$$ (check price)
Location: Block M
Rated: 7.6 out of 10

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Most guys that travel in and around Southeast Asia will eventually be aware of the city of Jakarta in Indonesia, which is quite underrated in my humble opinion.

The place is excellent for gentlemen to travel. Not only does it have one of the best nightlife in all of Asia, it also has a huge population of beautiful Indonesian women.

In this brief Intro I wanted to give you guys general understanding of the place, and also get you acquainted as to why you may be interested in traveling to this city, especially if your focus is to party, or explore the naughty options this city has to offer.

Pros and Cons of Jakarta

Jakarta does have some good and bad things about it, which is why some guys either make sure to visit the place each time they are around, and others who seem to get frustrated with the ever changing scenes as of late, and of course, the dreaded traffic.

Generally, the prices have been increasing, especially in the fancy nightclubs. Another thing to consider is that Jakarta is a Muslim dominant country. The government and authorities seem to be on the prowl for closing down businesses that are in the P4P industry, or making policies that are harder for them operate in an efficient manner. Check out some of the points below.

Pros

• Lots of world class nightclubs
• Amazing men’s spas and clubs (Massage Parlors)
• Most attractive women around
• Huge online dating scene
• Decent guest friendly hotels

Cons

• Arguably the worst traffic in all of Southeast Asia
• Price for partying and alcoholic drinks can get expensive
• A huge city, can get frustrating getting around
• Usually safe, but could be a concern for some less experienced travelers.

My Personal Thoughts of Jakarta in 2019

Jakarta should seriously be considered throughout your Southeast Asia travels, and the main reason is that Indonesian women in Jakarta can be super attractive. And not only that, but because of the sheer population of Jakarta, you will notice that there are so many women who are working in the P4P industry that you will surely have a good time as a single male in this city.

The nightclubs, hotel bars, and men’s spas are the main features of this super star city in Asia.

But like I said, if you are new to Southeast Asia traveling, then you may want to visit other places like Thailand which is a bit more easier for beginners, and also more touristy. Just keep in mind that some guys think Jakarta is the best place in Southeast Asia for single male foreigners, and in my opinion it surely deserves to be mentioned as one of the best cities in Asia to party in.