The Indonesian capital city of Jakarta has many beautiful girls for you to check out when you happen to be in town.
The sheer population of women in this city makes it a great opportunity for any single male foreigner to explore. In this guide I wanted to give you an brief introduction to Indonesian girls, and give you an idea about the best places to meet and pick up girls in Jakarta.
Intro to Dating in Jakarta
Most of the daytime activities involving girls is quite limited, due to Indonesia being a Muslim dominant country. Even so much that some young women even skip the dating process and go straight to marriage (source). So you need to respect the cultural norms. But not only that, the women will not be that responsive during the daytime.
Sure you will see plenty of women around in the streets, shops, and office buildings, but they won’t be open to getting picked up in most cases. It is not so easy like it is on other Southeast Asian countries.
The nightlife activities in Jakarta is where you really get to see how fun this city can be for single guys.
From the bars, nightclubs, restaurants, once the sun sets, you will have the best chance to score with girls in Jakarta.
But before even thinking of that, you should know a few more things
Personalities of Indonesian Girls
Simply put, they are not that easy to impress, and they pay a lot of attention to how you look and carry yourself.
Everything comes into play, including your personality and your social skills. If you want the hot girls (and who doesn’t) then you will need to realize that “being a foreigner” is not enough to hook up with hottest Indonesian girls.
But here is the great thing, once you understand what types of gentlemen these women give attention to, you will be almost overwhelmed at the amount of dating opportunities you have in this city. In this regard, Jakarta may be the best in all Southeast Asia — yes even better than Philippines.
Jakarta is one of those types of places where it gets better the longer you stay. You can build up your connections and rotation of girls, and will almost have an endless supply Indonesian women to date.
It gets even better once you consider the fact that online dating has grown in popularity over the past few years. So now there is a whole other bunch of Jakarta girls that are online looking to meet guys for dating.
There are basically three types of girls you can meet in Jakarta:
- Those that are looking for serious relationship
- casual dating with foreigners, short time fun, etc
- Working girls in the industry
Whether you want to pay for it or not, you will always have options in this city. That is what makes Jakarta one of the best cities for foreign gentlemen in Asia.
Places To Meet Women in Jakarta
I will give you a full idea of where to meet all types singles. Here are the best places in Jakarta to meet and pick up women:
The nightclubs are the perfect choice if you want to meet some normal chicks in Jakarta. These are the students, office workers, and others who are just going out for a great time with their crew of friends.
You will usually find women in groups dancing around, hanging out with there friends. Many of the hotter ladies will be sitting in the VIP with bottle service. Whatever you do, don’t get intimidated. Foreigners can do great in the nightclubs in Jakarta, as long as they follow the dress code, look sharp, and know how to act in a club setting.
How do you do that? let loose, and have fun, and stay confident.
If you look like you are having fun then the girls will come around you, especially being a foreigner. Things might have changed a bit, but don’t forget, being a foreigner is still a novelty in Southeast Asia, you just have to know how to stand out apart from the other foreigners more these days.
Some popular place to check out are: Dragonfly, Fable, Immigrant.
A decent idea is to meet the girls online, and then ask them to come to the nightclub with you.
Jakarta has lots of bars, and they all have their own vibe and special characteristics. But most of the popular places have one thing in common: they get busy in the evening, many women go to these establishments to meet up with their friends and socialize. And because the music is not as loud as the clubs, you can actually converse with them.
A few names of the top of my head are Bluegrass, Blowfish, And Safehouse.
The bars are great way to pick up girls in this city, especially if your approach game is good.
Gentlemen Clubs & Spas
The gentlemen clubs and massage parlors in Jakarta are simply amazing. They are like all-in-one complexes, that are designed for single guys to have some fun with the working women. They have various fun activities like massage, nightclubs, and KTVs. But they all give you a chance to pick a girl, and get to spend some sexy time with her, for a price of course.
The main benefit of these places is two things:
- Some of the most attractive women you will meet
- you don’t waste time and money in the bars, nightclubs and streets trying to pick up girls.
The nightclubs at these gentlemen clubs are almost like normal clubs, with drinks served, dance floor and music, but all the women there are P4P and it will cost you.
One of the best ways to meet women in Jakarta is online. I personally use this site. There are lots of singles who have dating profiles on the popular dating sites. All it takes from your end is to set up an account, put a few good pictures. Just write down in your profile that you are in town, and wish to meet some women. Usually if your profile is decent, you will get lots of responses from the women. To take it even farther you can message them and let them know that you are in the city. All it takes is some initial conversation, then ask them out on a date to meet in person.