The Indonesian capital city of Jakarta has many beautiful girls for you to check out when you happen to be in town.

The sheer population of women in this city makes it a great opportunity for any single male foreigner to explore. In this guide I wanted to give you an brief introduction to Indonesian girls, and give you an idea about the best places to meet and pick up girls in Jakarta.

Intro to Dating in Jakarta

Most of the daytime activities involving girls is quite limited, due to Indonesia being a Muslim dominant country. Even so much that some young women even skip the dating process and go straight to marriage (source). So you need to respect the cultural norms. But not only that, the women will not be that responsive during the daytime.

Sure you will see plenty of women around in the streets, shops, and office buildings, but they won’t be open to getting picked up in most cases. It is not so easy like it is on other Southeast Asian countries.

The nightlife activities in Jakarta is where you really get to see how fun this city can be for single guys.

From the bars, nightclubs, restaurants, once the sun sets, you will have the best chance to score with girls in Jakarta.

But before even thinking of that, you should know a few more things

Personalities of Indonesian Girls

Simply put, they are not that easy to impress, and they pay a lot of attention to how you look and carry yourself.

Everything comes into play, including your personality and your social skills. If you want the hot girls (and who doesn’t) then you will need to realize that “being a foreigner” is not enough to hook up with hottest Indonesian girls.

But here is the great thing, once you understand what types of gentlemen these women give attention to, you will be almost overwhelmed at the amount of dating opportunities you have in this city. In this regard, Jakarta may be the best in all Southeast Asia — yes even better than Philippines.

Jakarta is one of those types of places where it gets better the longer you stay. You can build up your connections and rotation of girls, and will almost have an endless supply Indonesian women to date.

It gets even better once you consider the fact that online dating has grown in popularity over the past few years. So now there is a whole other bunch of Jakarta girls that are online looking to meet guys for dating.

There are basically three types of girls you can meet in Jakarta:

1. Those that are looking for serious relationship
2. casual dating with foreigners, short time fun, etc
3. Working girls in the industry

Whether you want to pay for it or not, you will always have options in this city. That is what makes Jakarta one of the best cities for foreign gentlemen in Asia.

Places To Meet Women in Jakarta

I will give you a full idea of where to meet all types singles. Here are the best places in Jakarta to meet and pick up women:

Nightclubs

The nightclubs are the perfect choice if you want to meet some normal chicks in Jakarta. These are the students, office workers, and others who are just going out for a great time with their crew of friends.

You will usually find women in groups dancing around, hanging out with there friends. Many of the hotter ladies will be sitting in the VIP with bottle service. Whatever you do, don’t get intimidated. Foreigners can do great in the nightclubs in Jakarta, as long as they follow the dress code, look sharp, and know how to act in a club setting.

How do you do that? let loose, and have fun, and stay confident.

If you look like you are having fun then the girls will come around you, especially being a foreigner. Things might have changed a bit, but don’t forget, being a foreigner is still a novelty in Southeast Asia, you just have to know how to stand out apart from the other foreigners more these days.

Some popular place to check out are: Dragonfly, Fable, Immigrant.

A decent idea is to meet the girls online, and then ask them to come to the nightclub with you.

Bars

Jakarta has lots of bars, and they all have their own vibe and special characteristics. But most of the popular places have one thing in common: they get busy in the evening, many women go to these establishments to meet up with their friends and socialize. And because the music is not as loud as the clubs, you can actually converse with them.

A few names of the top of my head are Bluegrass, Blowfish, And Safehouse.

The bars are great way to pick up girls in this city, especially if your approach game is good.

Gentlemen Clubs & Spas

The gentlemen clubs and massage parlors in Jakarta are simply amazing. They are like all-in-one complexes, that are designed for single guys to have some fun with the working women. They have various fun activities like massage, nightclubs, and KTVs. But they all give you a chance to pick a girl, and get to spend some sexy time with her, for a price of course.

The main benefit of these places is two things:

1. Some of the most attractive women you will meet
2. you don’t waste time and money in the bars, nightclubs and streets trying to pick up girls.

The nightclubs at these gentlemen clubs are almost like normal clubs, with drinks served, dance floor and music, but all the women there are P4P and it will cost you.

Online

One of the best ways to meet women in Jakarta is online. I personally use this site. There are lots of singles who have dating profiles on the popular dating sites. All it takes from your end is to set up an account, put a few good pictures. Just write down in your profile that you are in town, and wish to meet some women. Usually if your profile is decent, you will get lots of responses from the women. To take it even farther you can message them and let them know that you are in the city. All it takes is some initial conversation, then ask them out on a date to meet in person.

Phuket’s amazing nightlife might be the most exciting in Thailand.

Not only does this city have a wide variety of options for you to explore, it also is one of nicest looking places in all the world.

This makes it quite unique as it attracts many different types of tourists in Phuket, especially around the Patong Beach area.

And for this reason it also attracts many Thai girls who come to Phuket to work in the many girlie bars in Patong, or to get a chance to meet and party with foreign guys who come to holiday here.

In this guide I will you guys the best guide on this city, including the best areas, different nightlife activities, and the prices to expect.

Intro to Phuket’s Nightlife

A huge portion of the nightlife in Phuket is geared towards single men who flock to the beach side town of Patong to enjoy the naughty fun, and to get a chance to meet the lovely Thai girls who work in bars, nightclubs, and massage shops.

So for guys it is a win win situation. You can have an amazing holiday in a tropical paradise, and also live out your fantasies every single night.

So in that regard it is quite similar to Pattaya — a smaller and more beautiful version of Pattaya.

But keep in mind that Phuket is a province and also the name of the capital city known as Phuket Town. That city is not known for its nightlife and foreign oriented entertainment.

About Patong Beach

So one of the important things to keep in mind is that most of the fun and entertainment for men is in the beach side town of Patong.

And the reason is simple, it is home to Bangla Road. The street is where the majority of the nightclubs, go go bars and beer bars are, including where most of the sex tourism is in Phuket.

An not only that, but around Bangla road is also more nightlife options for you to experience.

So generally speaking, you would want to stay around this area when you plan your adventure, and try and stay in a girl friendly hotel in Phuket.

If you are looking for a more relaxed vibe in, then you would need to consider staying around Karon Beach, which has a much smaller nightlife scene compared to Patong.

There is also the neighboring Kata Beach, which also has a handful of bars and nightclubs, but they are not as busy as Patong. There quiet places also attract many couples, newlyweds and families.

But the main show is at Patong Beach, and that is where you can expect to have the most fun and excitement, and of course, the most sexy Thai girls to spend time with.

Red Light District in Phuket

Many first timers to Phuket wonder where the red light areas are. And the answer is simple, it is in and around Soi Bangla. This is where you will find some of the countries best go go bars and beer bars.

And you know what that means?

That you will also find some of the hottest girls in Thailand here. They will be working in the bars and nightclubs.

And keep in mind that there are many normal girls who are in this area, who have regular jobs, but wouldn’t mind partying and dating foreigner men. So many of those girls are also freelancers on the down low, who would go home with you.

Around Soi Bangla you will find even more nightclubs, beer bars and massage parlors.

Just remember that there are all types of tourists in these areas. And although Soi Bangla is considered Phuket’s red light district, it is really known as a tourist “entertainment area”.

Go Go Bars

Similar to Bangkok and Pattaya, the gogo bars in Patong are simply amazing, and maybe even the best in all of Thailand.

I’ve listed the best ones, you may be interested to read more:

• The Best Go Go Bars in Phuket in 2020

Most of the venues are on Bangla Road and are good quality, with sexy bar girls who want to make sure you have an amazing time.

And because of the top quality and attractive girls, you will find that the prices are known to be expensive. But in my opinion it can be still worth it, since this whole area is such a beautiful place.

So you are basically living a real life sexual fantasy, with hot girls in a beautiful natural scenery.

Just step inside and take a look for free, if you like what you see just order a beer and sit down anywhere you like and take in the fun and sexy entertainment.

PRICES:

• Drinks: 150-200 baht (drink special from 99 Baht)
• Lady Drinks: 200-250 Baht
• Bar Fine: Up to 2,600 Baht (most places 800-1000 Baht)
• Short time: around 2000 Baht
• Long Time: 3000 Baht and up

Beer Bars

The beer bars are mostly located in Patong, especially in and around Bangla Road, and also a bit further down south near the Beach Road.

You really can’t go wrong with beer bars, it is a simple way to relax, have a nice cold beer and chill out with some cute bar girls.

Typically the beer bars will have pool tables, big screen T.V.’s playing sports or music from YouTube. And since most of the bars are close to each other you can easily explore them and decide on which ones you like the most.

Usually as you walk in you will greeted by the waitress or bar girls, and they will ask what you would like to drink.

Sooner or later if you like on of the girls you can chat with her, and buy her a drink, and of course have the the option to pay for her bar fine. This will allow her to leave the bar and go out with you. What you decide to do together is up to you and her.

PRICES:

• Drinks: 70 – 90 Baht for beer
• Lady Drinks: around 200 Baht
• Bar Fine: 600 Baht
• Short time: 1000-2000
• Long time: 2000-3000 Baht

Nightclubs

The amazing nightclubs in Patong are an excellent way to have a few drinks, listen to some music, and party the night away with some sexy Thai girls.

Not only will you find normal local Thai girls with normal jobs. or students, but also the working girls. So expect to see many freelancers, bar girls, massage girls who come after there shift to party with their friends, or even alone.

The scene here is really great, and there are quite a few venues that can cater to all different types of people.

Generally speaking you would want to visit the clubs on the Bangla Road area since they attract the most amount of Thai girls who are interested in foreigners.

Although there are a few other venues in Phuket town, they are mostly frequented by local Thai men, and the vibe is bit more Thai oriented.

PRICES:

• Beers: Around 160-200 Baht at most clubs
• Non-Alcoholic Drinks: around 120-150 Baht
• Cover Charge: Free most nights, or 200-300 Baht with 1 free drinks

Massage Shops (Happy Ending)

Of course you can expect many happy ending massage shops around the Patong Beach area, and also other places around Phuket. The the majority (and foreign oriented ones) will all be close to the Bangla Road area.

These shops are one of the best ways to spend your money.

You at least get a massage, and also can kill some time in a nice and relaxing way, while getting a massage from a lovely Thai woman.

Keep in mind that the prices for other services can be negotiated with your masseuse.

PRICES:

• Traditional Thai Massage: 200-250 Baht
• Oil Massge: 300 Baht
• Extras: around 500 Baht for HJ, 700 Baht BJ, 1200 Baht FS

Soapy Massage Parlors

As of now there are just two places that are worth going to in Phuket, and I will list them below.

Just know that there aren’t many soapy massage parlors in Patong like there are in places like Pattaya or Bangkok.

But the good news is that the two places are good enough to keep you satisfied should you want your “soapy massage fix” while you are on holiday in Phuket.

Christin Massage has the best soapy experience for foreigners. Not only are the girls the most attractive, but there is a nice selection of them. A good portion of the girls will be hot and worth trying out.

The process is like other soapies in Thailand.

You just walk in, take a seat or order a drink if you want. You can see the selection of girls in the “fish bowl” and simply tell the mamasan/papasan which girl you would like to get a massage from.

PRICE: 3,300 Baht (1.5 hours)

Pearl Hotel is another soapy that is located further away in Phuket Town. As you can imagine, this soapy is a bit more oriented for local Thai men, but foreigner are welcome of course.

It can be a nice chance to visit the place however, to get a away from the scene in Patong Beach and get a different experience.

The selection here is not on par with Christin Massage, and the rooms are a bit less quality. It is more like the lower end Soapy Massage shops in Bangkok.

Simple concept and design.

Just walk in and select your girl and off you go. Nothing fancy here, you know what to expect and the price involved.

PRICE: 2,600 Baht (1.5 hours).

The Thailand nightlife is great, and although prices have increased over the years, you can still have an amazing time with the Thai girls for a reasonable cost.

Of course it depends on what city you go, and which types of Thai girls you prefer to get. It can either be very affordable, or it can even make you completely destroy your life.

Yes, if you don’t have self control or know how to manage your finances, then you will find that you are spending lots of money in Thailand. Especially in Bangkok, since that city place has some of the highest red light district prices in all of Southeast Asia.

And even for a one week vacation it can be expensive. It all depends on how you manage it.

There are guys who come here for weeks, stay at cheap hotels, and know how to find the best prices for everything (including girls).

So in this guide I wanted to give you guys a helpful overview of the nightlife costs in Thailand, and also the various prices for girls that you can expect.

Is Thailand Still Affordable?

I know many of you are wondering if Thailand is still “cheap” for a South East Asian country. And I can’t even count how many times people have asked me about the value that it still represents.

The reason is because Thailand used to be one of the most affordable destinations in Southeast Asia. It was the “go to” place for single men who wanted to enjoy a great nightlife, but also for buying a girlfriend in Thailand.

But things are a bit different now, Bangkok can actually be one of the most expensive cities in Asia if you don’t watch your money or if you are not on a budget.

And now many of you probably know about the higher prices and are contemplating whether or not you should visit other countries for your “single man’s” holiday.

Although I do recommend for guys to visit other places nearby, I must be honest and say that the Thailand nightlife is simply better than most places. So most guys would agree that even if you are spending a bit more money here, over-all it is worth it because you are typically getting more value in return.

But here is the truth: Thailand can be still very affordable if you focus on these 3 things:

• Visiting the less-known cities
• Getting girls from other places like online (more on this later)
• Knowing when and where to spend your money.

What Has Caused The Price Increases?

There a few reasons why Thailand became more expensive, especially the red light district prices. These are are the main reasons:

1) Economy Got Better
Gone are those days where Thailand was considered to be a dirt poor country.

One of the reason’s Thailand was so cheap before is because there weren’t as many jobs around. And there was also less foreign investment in the economy.

The tourism boom itself caused many foreigners to end up retiring here.

They bought condos, business, and eventually married their Thai girlfriend. So the money came pouring into the country. Standards got better. And of course the cost of almost everything has increased.

This actually created more jobs than before. Maybe before some of the bar girl were forced to work as prostitutes because of very poor conditions.

These days most of them do it because willingly want to. And some of girls make more money than the office workers.

2)Foreigners Paid Whatever The Girls Asked
This is one of the biggest reasons why the prices for girls increased over the years.

As more foreign men came to party in Thailand, more of them told their friends or coworkers about the place. And soon there was more demand in the market for girls (especially the hotter ones).

The wealthy men in other countries would come to places like Nana Plaza in Bangkok or Walking Street go go bars and pay very high prices (without actually negotiating). So naturally this jacked up prices big time.

It also didn’t help the fact that many visitors to Bangkok come for short term, for business trips. These types of travelers don’t really care what they spend. They simply want to have the best time possible, without caring about a budget.

Or it could be that they billed it as “business expense”. All these types of things were the cause of increased costs at the expense of other tourists.

So here is a guide to the prices you should expect in the Cities:

Go Go Bars

Expect the bar fines prices to be from 600 Baht to 1000 Baht.
For short time it will be around 2000 Baht. Add another 1500 Baht for Long time.
A beer will be around 150 Baht, and a lady drink will be up to 200 Baht

Beer Bars Prices

the Bar fines here will be starting at around 500 baht.
Short time will cost you from 1000 – 1500 Baht. Add another 500-1000 Baht for Long Time.
Bottles Beers from 90-120 Baht, and lady drinks around 120 Baht

Soapy Massage Prices

Generally from 2000-3000 Baht for 1.5 Hours. For the hotter younger girls it will be more, expect around 4000-5000 Baht. The top models will cost even more on that.

Online Prices

One of the most affordable as of late. Can range from 1000 – 1500 Baht Short time. Long time Add 500-1000 Baht. The online method is also a great way to find a holiday Thai girlfriend for a few days or weeks at a time.

you may be interested to read more on the online sites, check my guides on ThaiFriendly.

Prices for Freelancers in Nightclubs

From 1000 – 1500Baht short time. Long time add another 1000 Baht.

Remember, these are the range of prices.

It can change depending on what city you are in, or even which area you are in.

It also depends on the girl. The hotter she is of course she will know here value and will want more money for her time.

In Bangkok you got the famous Thermae Cafe freelancer bar. Read more on that here.

But generally speaking I have give you a good idea of what to expect. From this you can at least know what price ranges you should be paying.

There are so many available girls in Pattaya that it still deserves the praise it gets — even in 2020. In all my travels I have never really seen another city like it.

Not only are there so many girls around, but the whole city is like a one huge red light district that is waiting to be explored.

Pattaya is not a secret anymore. In this article I will give you guys the full info on this topic, and give you a great idea of the different types of girls In this city, and what to expect in this city, including prices.

History of Girls in Pattaya

Everyone knows that it is the sex capital of South East Asia, and possibly the world. And even now in 2020, thousands of men from all over the world still make Pattaya one of their sex vacations.

But this wasn’t always the case. Back in the early days of Pattaya’s tourism the scene was still fresh, and it was only a niche destination — for the guys who dared make the trip to Thailand.

And who could blame them? The city is home to so many working girls that make a living off the entertainment industry. And as the tourism grows in Pattaya, more and more girls from the poorer regions of Thailand like Issan hear about the business opportunities the place offers.

This is why Pattaya is still considered one of the great destinations for single guys. Even with the price inflation, it still is one of the best cities in Thailand for a fun and exciting time.

You could easily spend weeks in this city and never get bored. Heck you could even spend a few days exploring walking street nightlife and still not get tired of it.

The Pattaya nightlife is just unique in the sense that it has so many sex workers looking to make some money off of the tourism industry.

There is simply so much to do and see that you will always be wondering what the next adventure will be.

Having sex in Pattaya is one of the easiest things to do in Thailand (and maybe even anywhere in the world). And although prices have increases over the years, there are still enough girls to go around for everyone.

And good times can still be had.

Below is the rundown of the different places to meet girls in Pattaya, and the prices you can expect — both with normal girls and the ones that you meet in the red light areas.

Where is the Red Light District?

It used to be that Pattaya was almost like one big red light district. It wasn’t like Bangkok that has three main dedicated adult oriented sex districts.

These days Pattaya authorities have tried to clean up the scene a bit (especially on beach road), and you will find that most of the girls there have been asked to go to the opposite side of the street when they try and entice customers.

But there are still some areas that seem to dedicated to beer bars, go go bars, massage shops and short time bars. And I will let you know of the sex prices for girls in Pattaya.

Popular Red Light Areas in Pattaya

• Soi 6
• Soi 7
• Soi 8
• Soi 13
• Soi 13/1
• Walking Street
• LK Metro (Soi Buakhoa)

So, generally it would be a good idea to stay in a guest friendly hotel near these areas in Pattaya.

Pattaya Beer Bar Girls

There are so many beer bars in Pattaya that I have lost count, and don’t even bother checking anymore.

There is just too many.

And as soon as one shuts down, another one seems to open up. The beer bars are “classic” and nostalgic in Thailand. And even to this day they are staple in the red light areas, and are very popular amount the American, European, and Asian men that visit them.

Anyone that has enough experience will tell you that the beer bar girls tend to give you better service than the go go girls. It could be a price thing, since the go go bars are more expensive and pushy for drinks.

Typically you pay less to these girls, here are the average costs.

PRICES:

• Bar Fine: Around 500 Baht
• Short time: 1,000 – 2,000 Baht Long Time: 1,500 – 2,000 Baht

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Pattaya GoGo Bar Girls

If you really want to experience some of the best adult entertainment, then you should consider the gogo girls as your choice.

The reason is quite simple: these are usually the hottest girls in Pattaya. These types of places only hire the hottest dancers, since they charge the highest prices.

Generally speaking, you get what you pay for, and the same is true here.

Most of the ones I have had experiences with were worth it. And if you know what you are doing, you can find go go girls for good prices.

But that is a whole other article which I won’t get into here. Here is an idea of the costs:

PRICES:

• Bar Fine: 600-1000 Baht
• Short time: 2,000 Baht Long Time: 3000+ Baht

Pattaya Freelancer Girls

Freelancers are the ladies that choose to work on their own. They are “independent”.

With these types you don’t pay for bar fines, and you pay them directly. The benefits of these girls are that they tend to be cheaper than the bars. And you can find them in a few places such as:

• Beach Road (now mostly on the opposite side of the street)
• The Nightclubs
• Walking Street
• Online
• Pretty much anywhere that has a nightlife area

Some guys are hesitant to get freelancers off the street because there is a risk associated with it. Because you never really know who they are. At least with bar girl you have an idea of where they work, and most of them get tested often for STD’s.

With freelancers, anything can go, especially the ones you see late at night on the street. With time you will gain experience and have a better judgement on which ones are less risky.

But don’t let doubt stop you.

I mean many guys prefer getting sex this way in Pattaya. It can be cheaper, a bit more exciting, and less of a hassle then going to the bars and clubs. Especially if you get her from online.

There are so many women online looking to meet men that it is almost ridiculous.

PRICES:

• Short time: 1000 Baht (can sometimes be cheaper)
• long time: 1500 Baht (sometimes cheaper)

What About Normal Girls?

OK, so most of this article is focusing on the pay for pleasure concept, but lets not forget that there are many “normal” girls in Pattaya. The ones that have regular jobs and are not working directly in the entertainment industry.

To be fair, these types of girls do not have it easy. Imagine how frustrating it can be for them. Almost all the girls in this city are stereotyped to some extent. And the good ones usually have to compete for the attention of the foreign tourists too.

If you are in Pattaya and want to meet these good girls then you need to know a few things.

Be sincere with them, and make an effort to show them you don’t judge them. Also be honest about what you expect from them. If you want a serious relationship with them then make it clear.

If you are only looking for casual short term fun then let them know. I don’t recommend to play with their emotions.

Don’t forget that these types of girls are not hardened pros. Actually, most of these types of Thai girls are quite shy and sensitive, especially if you are a foreigner with a lot of dating experience back home.

This is why it is best to take your time with them and show you are genuinely interested in them. Ask them out on a date. In Pattaya some great date ideas with normal girls include the following:

• Hanging out and talking the beach — watching the sunset
• Going to a nice Thai restaurant
• Shopping at the Mall — its nice and cold in there too
• Going to a nightclub or listening to Live Music
• Visiting some nearby Buddhist Temples

Pattaya Soapy Massage Girls

Generally speaking, the girl in the Soapy Massage Parlors in Pattaya will be the more attractive, especially the ones that are on the higher end. So expect price to be higher there, and the service is also known to be more satisfying. The great thng about these places is that you can see all the girls in the fishbowl, and make your choice. There is huge selection, and you will always find a nice attractive lady to give you service.

PRICES: Around 2,500Baht – 3000 Baht for 90 Minutes at most places