In this article I wanted to give you guys a better understanding of the personality traits of a Thai woman. While it is true that some of their behaviors are wonderful, but they also have some characteristics which can be difficult to deal with.
Before we get started, lets make a point clear. I am not saying that all Thai women will have these types of characteristics. Of course, individual mannerism and behaviors also depends on personal ethics and morals. But from my experience, understanding a Thai woman can be done by paying attention of the following things:
The Good Traits
Kind Hearted (“Big Heart”)
She will not be hesitant to show her affection to you, and is not afraid to open her heart to foreign men. If she feels that something is in line with her moral and ethics, she will put a lot of effort into it.
You will also notice that she is very in tune with her emotions — even driven by them. While it is true that many Thai women are smart when it comes to relationships, they are also known to get “crazy in love”. This happens because they usually give themselves fully into situations and people.
They have a big heart, and will make it known to the people around them. This is even more true when it comes to their family and loved ones. They will sacrifice their own happiness for their parents, husbands, and children. Many foreign men want to marry Thai women these types of reasons.
Giving in Relationships
When a Thai woman is in a relationship she will do whatever she can to keep the relationship healthy and balanced. She won’t hold back when she likes you, especially when they love him.
As long as you treat them fairly, honestly, and show them affection they will return the favor and more. It can be very true, they make excellent long term partners, especially if you find a good one with solid family values. That is also why they will greatly appreciate when you make an effort to understand Thai language. Some basic Thai phrases will get you started.
Understand The Feminine Role
A Thai woman will understand the gender roles within relationships perfectly. Her personality has been built upon understanding this dynamic from an early age. Thai parents raise their children with traditional values, which includes a good understanding of gender roles within relationships.
Thai women understand gender roles. They expect the man to do the “manly” things, and they will fulfill the feminine aspects of relationship dynamics. All this happens naturally with a Thai woman, and it really is one of their best personality traits. She will make an effort to cook, clean, do laundry, take care of the kids, and even give you her feminine opinion on things.
Faithful To Partner
I know some guys may not agree with me, but from my experience, when a Thai woman likes you, she will remain loyal to you. They have no problem being faithful to one man, as long as he is loyal and honest in return.
Of course, she must be interested in him in the first place. When a Thai woman is satisfied by her partner, she will not be looking elsewhere. Most of the problem that I have seen with infidelity have been as a result of the man not being honest with her, or her not feeling satisfied with him.
The Bad Traits
Unfortunately, Thai women are known to get jealous easily. If they see you talking to other women or getting close with them, even as friends, they make not feel comfortable with that. And if they catch you cheating on them it can get ugly very fast, even maybe dangerous for you. They don’t like getting lied to, and they don’t like “losing face”. So if they see you are making them jealous in public then she may get even more angry at you. The jealous personality type of Thai women can even be seen with the bar girls, who don’t appreciate when their customers takes out other girls in the same bar.
Yes they can be very stubborn. If they have their mind set on something then it will be hard to get them to think of something else. If they want to stay in a certain situation, even if it is bad for them, they may stay simply for reasons that may not make sense to you. It can be hard for them to take the facts of something into consideration.
They tend to make emotional based decisions, and will stick by them. This is also why some guys have seen that Thai women to do not just forgive and forget easily. They may hold grudges for a long time.
Judgemental Without Reason
One of the worst traits I have seen in them is the “quick to judge” personality trait. They easily judge people and situations around them, and due to their stubbornness, it will be easy for them to keep repeating the same cycle over and over again.
They may judge other Thai women at their work, or even foreigners. She will easily criticize other nationalities, your ex girlfriends, her own ex boyfriends. It is almost never ending.
Last but not least, they can be quite temperamental or “hot blooded”. They can act instinctual and respond harshly when they get angry. They can “lose themselves” in the heat of the moment. When they argue, they will talk loud and not feel ashamed of it — even in public.
So my advice, try not to piss them off, you will quickly see the emotional fire in their personality. Of course, this is also related to their passion. So in some ways, it can also be a good thing, since they are also quite passionate in the bedroom.
So there you have it, my perspective on this topic. I would like to hear from you and your thoughts on the many personality traits of Thai women.